I recently picked up a book called Apartment Therapy: Real Homes, Real People, Hundreds of Real Design Solutions. It’s by Maxwell-Gillingham Ryan, founder of the popular shelter blog ApartmentTherapy.com. In the introduction of this book, the author has a couple of solid things to say about the home. Listen to this….

I used to think of home was the place where we cook, eat, and sleep. I now understand it as a force that shapes our daily lives. More than just a physical shelter, the home is both a second skin that protects us from the world outside, and an emotional center that nourishes us and supports our inner-most dreams.

Whether you live in a rental apartment in New York City or own a house in Seattle, your home is the one space on earth that you can call your own. You owe it to yourself to make it as beautiful, organized, and healthy as you can.

By taking care of our home, you are taking care of yourself. A healthy home will nurture and support you.

Now, I would caution myself to remember and consider that my TRUE home is not on this earth but with Jesus in eternity. No dwelling place on earth can compare to the beauty that is my future home in Glory, much as it’s hard for me to even comprehend this. But I can appreciate this quote because I think it resonates with my reasons for why I do what I do, for my home that is. Our home is a shelter, a nourishing center, a protection, and a second skin and I absolutely believe that it should be all these things. I believe this because I believe that I personally am called to live my life in and from home. Right now, I have the great privilege of being able to work from home which is something I do not take for granted. We also plan to raise a family together so being a mom will be a couple of decades worth of work that will take place primarily at home. It’s also a great possibility that my children will be educated at home. (But more on that later, much later.) I love to have people in to our home, and I want to be more hospitable to do so more often. I also, and you could say first and foremost, want my home (our home) to be a place of refuge for my dear husband. I want him to come home to a place of rest and be blessed for his hard work outside of the home.  I know that my husband could be blessed by our home even if we lived out of a cardboard box because it ultimately has to do with the homemaker’s heart and desire to serve (or her lack). But since I have been blessed with more than a cardboard box, for right now at least, I’ve been endeavoring to be the best steward I can be. 

My favorite shelter magazine, Domino, is shutting down. Their last issue goes out in March. What a bummer. I had just sent my check for another 1 or 2 year subscription. (can’t remember which) They will probably be sending me a sub. to another magazine but I have no idea which one. I used Christmas gift money to buy subs. to Metropolitan Home, House Beautiful, and Elle Decor but they aren’t as good as Domino in my opinion. Oh well. I thought about getting a Dwell subscription too, but since I picked up over 2 years worth of back issues for $5 at a garage sale, I figure I had better go through and exhaust those before I get any new issues. I also receive (as gifts) subscriptions to Cooking Light, Bon Appetit, and Southern living.